Hiring a caregiver, attendant or nurse for parents in India
Attendant, trained caregiver, nurse or physiotherapist: who does what, agency or direct hire, what to check, and how to manage home care from abroad.
By the Athnova Care team · Updated
Who does what
| Role | Typical work | When families hire one |
|---|---|---|
| Attendant / patient-care helper | Help with bathing, dressing, toilet, walking, feeding, company | After a fall or surgery; frailty; dementia |
| Trained caregiver (GDA) | The above, plus taking readings, giving medicines as prescribed, basic care of a bedridden person | Long-term care at home |
| Nurse (GNM or BSc) | Injections, wound dressing, catheter and feeding-tube care, as ordered by the doctor | After hospital discharge; complex medical needs |
| Physiotherapist | Exercise and mobility sessions at home | After fractures, joint replacement, stroke |
Agency or direct hire
An agency costs more and gives you a replacement when the caregiver is ill or leaves, a background check, and someone to complain to. A direct hire costs less and gives you continuity — if you find the right person — but you carry the risk of absence yourself. From abroad, most families are better served by an agency, at least at first.
Questions to ask an agency
- How do you verify identity and address, and do you do a police verification?
- What training has this person had, and for which conditions?
- What happens if the caregiver does not come one morning?
- Is it a 12-hour or 24-hour shift, and what rest and food must we provide?
- What is the notice period and the replacement policy?
- Are there charges beyond the daily rate?
Before the first day
- Keep copies of the caregiver’s ID and the agency agreement.
- Write the routine down: medicines, meals, exercises, what to do in an emergency.
- Put valuables and cash away. It protects everyone, including the caregiver.
- Introduce the caregiver to the neighbours and the building staff.
Managing from abroad
- Ask for a short daily update at a fixed time.
- Keep your own line to your parent. The daily check-in should be answered by your parent, not by the helper.
- Pay on time and treat the caregiver with respect. Good caregivers stay where they are treated well.
- Ask a relative to visit unannounced now and then.
When home care is not enough
If your parent needs two people to move, wanders at night or needs medical attention several times a day, discuss assisted living or a care home with the family and the doctor.
Questions families ask
What is a GDA?
General Duty Assistant: a trained patient-care worker who helps with daily activities and basic care. A GDA is not a nurse.
Does Athnova Care provide caregivers?
No. We provide the daily check-in, follow-up calls, alerts and coordination. For hands-on help, use a home-care agency as well.
Related guides
- Senior living, assisted living and care homes in India: a guide for NRIs
- After hospital discharge: a checklist for elderly parents in India
- WhatsApp check-ins vs a care manager for your parents
- Daily check-ins for elderly parents living alone in India
Athnova Care tracks and coordinates care. It does not diagnose, prescribe or replace a doctor. In a medical emergency in India call 112.